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title: 真愛 Real Love
description: "Real love is wisdom. What most people think of as love is just an impermanent feeling. If you have a nice taste every da"
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Real Love

　　真愛

Real love is wisdom. What most people think of as love is just an impermanent feeling. If you have a nice taste every day, you will soon get tired of it. In the same way, such love eventually turns into hatred and sorrow. Such worldly happiness involves clinging and is always tied up with suffering, which comes like the policeman following the thief.

　　真愛就是智慧，大部份的人都認為「愛」只是一種短暫的感覺。如果你每天都有美味的食物，你很快地就會對它感到厭煩。同樣的道理，像這樣的愛，最後終將演變成憎恨與悲傷。這種世俗的快樂蘊藏了執著，而且永遠與苦相纏，就好像警察緊隨著小偷一樣。

Nevertheless, we cannot suppress nor forbid such feelings. We just should not cling to or identify with them but should know them for what they are. Then Dharma is present. One loves another, yet eventually the beloved leaves or dies. To lament and think longingly, grasping after that which has changed, is suffering, not love. When we are at one with this truth and no longer need or desire, wisdom and the real love that transcends desire fill our world.

　　雖說如此，我們不能去壓抑和禁止這種感覺，我們只須不去執著和陷入它們之中，而去了解它們的本然。如此一來，「法」就現前了。一個人愛另一個人，然而，最終摯愛的人仍會離開、死去啊!悲悼、期望或執著那過眼的云煙，是苦，而不是愛。當我們明了這個真理，而不再需求或欲求時，超越欲望的智慧和真愛就會充滿我們的人間!